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USING
ESSENCES WITH CHILDREN
Children and animals typically progress
faster than adults when using vibrational essences
because they have fewer layers of character and defenses built up over
periods of time in response to the wounds we all experience in life.
However, if children have been abused or abandoned--if the wounds are deep
and one is not using essences to address typical developmental issues--this
is not the case, and additional forms of therapy are strongly advised.
At right is the buttercup which is helpful for children who experience
low self-esteem, compare themselves to others, don't want to show their
work, or feel insignificant (courtesy of FES). All flowers shown
on this page are helpful for adults as well as children.
Essences
may be used for a great many situations, problems, and goals with children
(probably anything you can think of!). Nightmares; bedwetting; shyness;
social, learning, and school issues; neediness; daydreaming; hypersensitivity;
fears; bonding problems; abuse; abandonment; and trauma are some of the
possibilities. At left is the mariposa lily, probably one of the
most important essences needed today. It helps provide nurturing
feminine energy and has been used successfully with adopted children; for
"failure to thrive" issues in children living in orphanages; in cases of
abandonment, abuse or any form of alienation from oneís mother or the ability
to mother; and in healing of the inner child (courtesy of FES).
Children usually love taking essences.
The bottle containing the essences may
be decorated with decals or stickers, one may create lovely affirmations
to be used with the child when taking the essences, and taking the essences
can become a special time. Children also respond well to receiving
the essences massaged on in creams with added essential oils. At
right is the pink yarrow, helpful for children who somatize family problems
or who are experiencing a great deal of trauma in their environment, such
as violence or divorce (courtesy of FES).
Essences
may even be given to babies. You can rub the essences on the wrists
of the baby, on the inside of the ear, or on the fontanel if itís not closed
yet (the skin is very thin there and the essences enter the bloodstream
through the skin). If the child is still nursing, the baby will receive
any essences the mother is taking through the mother's milk. Since
the childís behavior and responses may be influenced by the mother, giving
the essences to both may be helpful. Some people have reported that
just placing the bottle of essences in the crib has an effect on the baby
through the vibration of the essences. At left is the shooting star,
helpful for children who feel alienated and not a part of the human family.
It is indicated for handicapped children, for children who experienced
birth traumas or who may have birth defects, and for autistic children
as part of a long-term program (courtesy of Steve Johnson, Alaskan Flower
Essence Project).
There has been a great deal of work
done using flower essence therapy with children
who have been diagnosed as having Attention Deficit Disorder and Attention
Deficit Disorder with Hyperactivity. It has been found that, in the
majority of cases, children suffering from these disorders experienced
some trauma stemming from early childhood. When the trauma is treated
with flower essences combined with other forms of therapy, the symptoms
associated with ADD and ADHD often decrease or disappear. It is most
helpful if parents are willing to consider dietary issues which may also
be a contributing factor. At right is the California wild rose, helpful
for children who are apathetic or who, for whatever reason, may not want
to be fully present with vitality in their bodies (courtesy of FES).
Click
here to read a wonderful goldenrod story about a young boy (found in
Radical
Healing by Rudolph Ballentine).
Please contact
Eileen to arrange a consultation to determine the creation of a
personalized
essence blend based on your child's needs, including any
of the flowers
shown on this page and many more!
Eileen Hutcheson,
M.Ed.
750
E. Madison, St. Louis, MO 63122 USA
Telephone:
314-821-0325 Email: EileenEH@aol.com
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